Saturday, November 10, 2007

Johnny & Bonnie say I DO...

posted Saturday, 10 November 2007

After 31 years stuck with a yucky brother, I finally have a sister!

My brother, John, married his best friend on November 10, 2007. The wedding took place in Warwick, Rhode Island. A friend of mine from NJ -- Dave Watermulder (aka Pastor Dave) was the officiant. Not only was it a beautiful ceremony, it was a fun weekend spent with family and friends.

Congratulations John & Bonnie!

Married!

Johnnie & Bonnie

Sister!Pastor Dave, John & Bonnie

Komen donation in lieu of favorsMy cousin Jessica

John, Bonnie, Linda & Mike at Rehearsal Dinner

NiceNot Nice!

Casill Family

LaRosee Family

Casills

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Monday, September 24, 2007

Aloha

posted Monday, 24 September 2007
As many of you know, I finally got to take a "fabulous end-of-treatment celebratory vacation". I had been planning to travel somewhere exciting in Feb 2006, after chemo & my mastectomy but before returning to work. Unfortunately, the complications I had with my reconstruction made me wary of traveling too far from home. In addition, I saw an opportunity to really add value at work and decided not to delay my March return. Again, this past spring, I thought about travelling - after my lat flap surgery but before my return to work. A more difficult recovery than I expected + a transition into a new role at work made the timing suboptimal. Rats. I came to realize that there would always be an excuse not to go. When an excuse to go arose - a wedding in San Diego - we decided to seize the opportunity. After all, San Diego is half-way to Hawaii... we might as well go the rest of the way! To get to Hawaii, we would likely fly through LA, so we might as well spend a few days there as well. Our trip started in Chicago, where I played in an ultimate frisbee tournament. We left from there Sunday night and flew to LA, where we stayed in Santa Monica with Heather & Jess. On Monday, we travelled around LA a bit, toured Mike's old stomping ground at CalTech, visited Mike's friend Reza, and then headed up to Santa Barbara. LA Hollywood In Santa Barbara, we visited my good friend Jen (her husband, Jim, was in China at the time). We had a lovely dinner downtown and spent the night at their cute home just outside of town. In the morning, Mike went off to play disc golf and I ran to the track at the college Jen works out to do a stadium workout (quite possibly the most rewarding stadium workout ever - from the top of the stadium, I could see across the road to the harbor and ocean - gorgeous). We then headed over to visit my dear friend Sarah Jarvis (and finally meet her darling daughter Beatrice). What a lovely visit. We had lunch in town and walked around afterwards. Of all the places we saw in southern California, I do think Santa Barbara is the one where I could most picture myself living. Sarah Jarvis & LC in Santa Barbara LC & Beatrice Jarvis Tuesday evening, we drove back to Santa Monica. We took "the scenic route" and stopped for a short hike on Malibu Bluffs. Hiking in Malibu 2007 We met up with Heather and Jess and headed out to dinner in Santa Monica. First we stopped at a wine bar for cheese and wine tasting. Delicious (particularly the 1978 Cakebread Cabernet). We then went to Maxwell's Italian restaurant. Ok, it's not really called "Maxwell's" - I have no idea what it was called. Maxwell, a friend of Jess & Noah's (and now Heather's), runs the place and made the night an evening to remember, so in my mind, it's "Maxwell's". It's a bit unfortunate that I can't share the actual name with you all... because this was, quite possibly, the best meal I have ever eaten. It ranks right up there with Frank's Keys Cafe in Key Largo (lobster fra diavolo + exploding chocolate volcano). Amazing. It's also quite possible that the impression this meal left was enhanced by the wine tasting that preceeded it, but even without the wine, I'm quite sure this meal was the best we had during our vacation. Wednesday morning, we left very early for our flight to Oahu. After a short flight to San Francisco and a 5 hour flight, we landed in Oahu around lunchtime. The flight approached Oahu from the Northeast and circled 3/4 of the island before landing in Honolulu. What a view from the plane! view of north shore from airplane We gathered our bags and headed to our home base in Ewa Beach. After weeks of debate between renting a studio apartment on the north shore at Chun's Reef and a beautiful home in Ewa Beach, we went with the home in Ewa Beach (click here to see the place we stayed and see the photos below of the beach behind our house). The home was gorgeous. The beach was lovely too, though I think in hindsight, we both would have chosen the studio on Chun's Reef. It's kind of ridiculous thinking back to our first view of Chun's reef -- our initial reaction was "this beach is so much better than ours... ours is ugly..." of course, from the photos, it is obvious just how ridiculous that notion was. View looking East from our house View looking West from our house We spent 7 full days on Oahu. We bought snorkeling gear so that we could go whenever the notion hit us and managed to snorkel Shark's Cove, Makaha Beach and the lagoons at Ko-Olina (our favorite). We meant to hit Hanama Bay on our last day, but they are closed on Tuesdays. Bummer. snorkeling in ko olina lagoon sunset ko olina We hit all of the tourist spots - Waimea Bay, Pearl Harbor, Waikiki, Diamond Head and the Polynesian Cultural Center. I even took a surf lesson (I couldn't stop smiling for hours afterwards... this was definitely a highlight of the trip!) view from the top of diamond head sunset at waikiki Linda and Savage ready for a surf lesson hang ten We also visited some lesser known places - a hike to the temple ruins above Waimea Bay, the shrimp trucks in Kohuku, a drive up the Waianae Coast, and a sunset hike up to Makapu'u lighthouse. view over waimea bay (from temple) Kahuku Shrimp trucks - yum! On Wed, Mike's Birthday, we packed up and caught an early flight over to Hawaii, "the big island". We stayed at a wonderful hotel in Hilo (The Dolphin Bay), which I would highly recommend. The accommodations were clean and moderate, but the service was wonderful. The owner spent nearly a half hour with us, talking about what we wanted to see, how long we had and what he would recommend. He also provided coffee, papaya, bananas and delicious cinnamon rolls for breakfast. Wednesday was rainy in Hilo (Hilo gets more rain than anyplace in the US). We visited the local marketplace, a few waterfalls and then drove to the Southern coast in hopes of some better weather. We found a delightful place to snorkel - Kapoho Tide Pools - the water here was so much more clear than anything we saw on Oahu. So glad we bought our own gear! There was also a "swimming pool" in Ahalanui Park that is volcanically heated to nearly 90 degrees. Rainy view of a waterfall near Hilo Kapoho Tidepools Volcanic Pool at Ahalanui Park On Thursday morning, we got up early and headed out for our Helicoptor tour of the volcano. Currently, the volcano is errupting in a place that is only accessible by air (or a full day hike in each direction). Unfortunately, the lava is no longer entering the ocean, but the view we got from the helicoptor was pretty amazing. The photos don't really do it justice. helicoptor tour from Hilo airport helicoptor tour lava as seen (and felt) from the helicoptor After the tour, we headed back to the hotel to check out. We stopped at one of the waterfalls to catch it in the sunlight. We packed up and then headed out to Volcanoes National Park. We spent the day exploring the park, including the steam vents, Jaggar Museum, Halema'uma'u Crater, Crater Rim Drive, Chain of Craters Road, the sea arch, Thurston Lava Tube, and a hike to the Pu'u Loa Petroglyphics field. Phew - busy day! We grabbed a bite to eat, headed back to the hotel (where they had a place for us to clean up, even though we had already checked out) and then went back to the airport in Hilo. We flew to Honolulu and then on to San Diego that night. Steam vents on Kilaueaclimbing the lava flows sea archold lava flows into the ocean We arrived in San Diego and went to check into our hotel. Exhausted from several busy days and then a red-eye flight, we decided to hit the San Diego zoo instead of the Wild Animal Park (even though the zoo is much more depressing than the open, wild animal park). We spent the afternoon visiting with the pandas, zebras, gorillas, elephants and koalas (though many of the animals were taking their afternoon nap while we were there). Dinner was at Casa de Pico, a recommendation from Jack-a-lack. Delicious mexican + margaritas in Old Town San Diego. Saturday was the wedding in La Jolla. The reception was at Torrey Pines and everything was lovely. It was fun to visit with old ZS friends: Heather, Jess, Bill, Abby, Naoko, and of course, "Pumpkin Head" Jim Adelizzi (the groom). Jim's Wedding: Jess, Heather, Bill, Abby, LC Sunday, we headed back out to La Jolla and spent the day walking around, checking out the bluffs, the caves, the cove and the seals. A beautiful sunset and a late dinner in La Jolla and then we were off to the airport to catch our flight home to Philadelphia. La Jolla, CA last sun of vacation

Monday, September 3, 2007

Ain't Nothin' Gonna Break my Stride

posted Monday, 3 September 2007

With the help of many of you, I have raised over $6k for the Komen Foundation (Komen for the Cure). It's time once again for the NJ Race for the Cure - I will be walking again with a team of friends and co-workers to raise money to support the fight against breast cancer.

Please take a moment to visit my fundraising website: http://events.komencsnj.org/goto/lc19
I'd love to have you join my team! The race is an amazingly empowering event and it shows you just how many people are really pulling together for this cause. Of course, if you can't come out and walk with us, you can still sponsor me with a monetary donation. If you don't want to sponsor me, you can sponsor Mike: http://events.komencsnj.org/site/TR/?pg=personal&fr_id=1000&px=1041802

Every dollar gets us one step closer to a cure.

Thanks in advance for your support.
LC
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1. Sarah Jarvis left...
Tuesday, 9 October 2007 5:33 am
Hawaii pics??? We want to see some!

Monday, August 27, 2007

"Cancer made me a shallower person"

posted Monday, 27 August 2007
This is an entry I wrote back in March and never published... thought I'd share it now for a laugh (and maybe a good cry)... LC

This is one of my favorite BC books that I've read over the past 2 years (and believe me, I've read a few!) I picked it up at Borders in Ithaca, while visiting Mike (he likes to go to go to the Borders Cafe to do work, and I sometimes tag along and read and drink a delicious Creme Brulee Latte).

This book tells the story of Miriam, who was diagnosed with breast cancer at age 43. The humor is fairly dark, so if you prefer a story about fairies and daisies, this one's not for you... I, personally, found her hysterical.
Many of you have commented on how you are impressed that I have managed to maintain a sense of humor through all of this. Well, you ain't seen nothin'...

My intentions behind sharing this book with you were to share a laugh with you. Upon finding Miriam's website today, I found out that she passed away this past October, after a five year battle with breast cancer.

Even when you don't know the person, that news is always hard to hear. If the best part of breast cancer is the amazing, strong women you meet who are battling beside you.... the worst part of breast cancer is hearing the news that another beautiful woman has fallen. Why is it that some people do all the right things, yet are over-taken by this disease? How long will it be before we are able to end the pain and suffering caused by this beast? How many must fall?
It hits home that you never know which story your own will be --
  • the one who battles once and never has to worry again
  • the one who battles twice or thrice, and then never has to worry again
  • or the one who battles her heart out and just doesn't make it
We all hope that we will be in that first group...

If not, then I guess, we'll deal with being in the second group, though it seems hard to imagine how we would be able to make it through all this again. I'm sure that when push comes to shove, it's the same as the first time... you're not really faced with much of a choice, so you put your head down and put one foot in front of the other...

My heart truly aches for the women who find themselves in the third group and I pray that I never find myself there. But I also know that if I do, I want to be able to look back, without regret and know that I lived a life that I am proud of... that I made dear friends along the way... that I knew what love was - both to love and to be loved... and that I made an impression, be it ever so small, on this world.


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1. Amanda left...
Monday, 15 October 2007 8:17 pm
LC - this post made reminded me of just how amazing a person you are. It's been so long since we've actually seen each other. And I'm pretty sure our struggles over the last two years have been very very different, but I'm so glad to count you as a friend... Keep on fighting, and head down this way to visit again sometime soon!!!

Quarterly Onc Update

posted Monday, 27 August 2007

As I mentioned, I had my quarterly appt with Dr Cairoli last Monday. I finally heard back from him Saturday morning as I was driving from the hotel in DC to our ultimate frisbee tournament. (Quick question: Is it weird that I recognize my oncologists voice on the phone???) Anyways, all of my blood results were normal. Good news. Waiting so long for results every time is a killer though!

I also finally remembered to ask Dr C what he thought about tofu. Not just whether he personally likes it - the texture, the flavor, etc - but whether he thinks that the phyto-estrogens in tofu are significant enough for someone with an estrogen receptive tumor (like me) to steer clear of tofu... as many of you know, I haven't eaten meat in the past year and a half, so it's tough enough to get my protein... if tofu is a no-no, it's even more challenging! Over the past year, I've read conflicting reports about tofu - it reduces the risk of cancer for most people, but the jury was still out for us er+ girls... He had good news on this subject as well: the studies have shown no correlation between tofu intake + rate of recurrence for er+ breast cancer. I don't think I'll start pouring processed soy protein into my breakfast smoothies just yet, but I won't feel guilty about having 3-4 servings of tofu a week!

Wednesday, August 22, 2007

Thank You + What Next?

posted Wednesday, 22 August 2007

Thanks for your emails and comments. I'm sorry that the site got taken down right after my last posting (as I mentioned, my subscription was up). I decided to renew it (didn't want to lose all the history that I have here), even though I am not blogging very often.

I guess my life has just gotten a lot less interesting -- which, honestly, is a good thing, right? I could blab on about my struggle to get back into shape for frisbee or tell you about the stomach flu that I had last weekend... but does anybody really want to hear about that? It doesn't sound terribly interesting to me.

I could tell you about how generally po'd I've been lately - angry about the time I lost - both at work and at frisbee.
I saw my colleagues make partner and I just know that if I hadn't had to take off a year's worth of time (and slow down a bit afterwards), I would be there with them (at least I hope I would have been). And while I have a pretty great excuse, it still stinks.

I am slow and out of shape - where I used to be a pretty good player, on a pretty awesome team... now I'm this slow old player who is really only on the team because people know where I've been. It was always hard enough to get in shape when things were normal... but now, I'm starting from nothing and my body is all sorts of messed up (muscles cut and moved and tight and stiff). It stinks.
But... who really wants to hear me complain???

I did just have my quarterly oncology check-up... everything seems ok, but I haven't gotten the blood test results back.

I just booked a super-sweet vacation: Chicago - Santa Barbara - Hawaii - San Diego... 2 weeks... but who really wants to hear me brag??? (Though I am super-excited!)

So then, what should I do with the blog? Any ideas? Anything you want to hear about? Is it better to write about stupid stuff that people probably don't care about... or not write anything at all? I'm not sure.


Comments:

1. Amanda left...
Wednesday, 22 August 2007 6:18 pm
Write about anything that's going on in your life! For those of us that don't have daily, weekly or even monthly contact with you, it's a good way of knowing what's going on in your life! :) Hope to see you soon, somewhere, sometime!

2. Mom left...
Wednesday, 22 August 2007 7:12 pm
Keep going. There is life after cancer and it is not as dull as you think. You are a terrific writer and I for one enjoy reading about what's going on with you...although I would much rather hear it in person!

3. Abby left...
Thursday, 23 August 2007 12:52 pm
I love all of it! Vacations, struggles....the whole nine yards.

Thursday, July 12, 2007

Hello... is anybody there?

posted Thursday, 12 July 2007

I haven't heard from anybody reading this in a while, which sometimes makes me wonder if anybody is reading (other than moms!)

June saw my expander exchange surgery, which went really well... with the exception that my boobs are still totally uneven. Everybody says that "nobody's are perfectly even", but these are *really* uneven (as in one is an inch lower than the other). So the surgery parade is not over, but it's over for now... I'm tired... and with my clothes on, nobody can really tell the difference.... but I am looking forward to the day when I am not worried about where my girls are sitting and whether it's obvious that they don't match.

Anyways, my blog-city subscription just expired. How did I wind up picking the only pay-blog hosting service? I'm exploring options for some of the free blogs, but it seems like a lot of work to move this over. So if you can convince me that keeping this site up is worth while, I will renew... but I only have 10 days... so ready... set... go!
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1. kaori left...
Friday, 13 July 2007 7:43 am
you have readers!!! You haven't posted in months! I was starting to wonder how you were!! Curious if you're back to working full time, if you're in Philly? And is your frisbee throwing arm affected by your lopsided gals (are you sure you didn't have that on purpose to ensure less friction?). And am VERY jealous that you get to hang out with my gal Jen B when she starts back up in the Philly office. It will probably be a year before I can travel back out to the east coast again (I'm due in october), and that's a long time to go without getting my NY fix! I love the blog for keeping me posted on what you're up to. I like your blog service b/c they send out emails informing me when you've posted (xanga does too, but a lot of services don't) - if it weren't for that I wouldn't be reading. Maybe you can just start a new blog elsewhere, as your 'new' chapter in life. :)

2. jjs left...
Friday, 13 July 2007 7:48 am
This I guess would be my first real reply. Considering your post, felt it was appropriate. I start my day, every day, with my cup of coffee at work and check your site for postings. Love hearing how you are doing, or more selfishly, I read your blog to help me keep things into REAL perspective on what challenges I think I have vs what real challenges are. So, loved your blog, will miss it, but understand there might be a need to move on, So I sincerely appreciate all that you have shared. Take care Coconut

3. Jim Hunziker left...
Wednesday, 22 August 2007 10:14 am
I was just migrating Karin's address book from a home computer that I'm decommissioning, and I ran across your site address again. Since it probably was the spring when I last read something here (and this is your first post since then), I guess I count as a reader! :)